After two failed marriages, long term relationships and short lived online dates, at the very end of my 40s I met the man of my dreams.
Growing up feeling not enough, seeing only negative examples of relationships in my family, and hearing only negative statements about men, as a woman, I realized that behind all the failures, there were these programs, fears about love, relationships, and marriage that didn't even made sense to my conscious mind. But they were running the show.
I wanted love. Not just love. LOVE. The real one. So, I committed to go all in and clear what was in my way. The not-enoughness, the too-complicatedness, the "not possible to have", the "great men don't choose me", the "love doesn't last", "true love comes only once in life and only at a young age" and other bogus beliefs I had in my subconscious. It was not easy and it was painful, and I could only notice very little results/changes. Until I found PSYCH-K®.
With this modality, in just a couple of minutes, I released stressful memories that were triggering and affecting my perceptions toward men and being in a relationship. I changed old beliefs to "I am good enough and deserve to be loved," "it's easy to be in a relationship", "I trust my partner" and many more.
I met the man of my dreams
And then He came. A man who was not only interested but fascinated by me. He didn't want to run away; in fact, he wanted very much to stay. Commitment to him was a natural thing, just like honesty and communication. He had the same goals, the same values, and he was a man to whom our connection was important. This he not only expressed with words but also demonstrated through his actions.
We fell in love just one month before he was about to move to Portugal. To be with him, I had to choose between love or fear. The promise that this could work out, that it's worth changing my whole life at 50, or the fear of being hurt and failing.
I chose love
It wasn't easy; I had to step out of my comfort zone in a big way, moving to a new country, leaving everything known behind, friends, community, professional life... but this was my dream, to find Love. So I had to overcome my limiting thoughts and trust that whatever happens, we will work it out. And we did. I had a great support during this challenging period fighting with my thoughts. Having PSYCH-K® as a tool and applying almost daily was a lifesaver and helped me to relax more and more and be braver and more trusting.
In the last 9 months of my moving to Lisbon, we went through tough times and had challenging issues on both sides. Our love was not supported by everybody, so it wasn't a red carpet to be where and how we are now. But we were and are a team. The challenging parts made our love and appreciation even bigger and stronger. We learned so much about ourselves and each other. And at times we used PSYCH-K® as a supporting tool to change our limited perceptions and expectations about ourselves, our environment, and our connections to people.
I love how we inspire, encourage, and support each other's dreams because we believe in one another's greatness, and we always remind the other if one of us has a more fragile moment.
Spirituality as a foundation
Growing up in a constantly traumatizing environment, I believed that there must be something greater than what we experience as reality. That was my hope, and I was determined to find the path that takes me there. I always wanted to know the deeper understanding of what is, and I learned that everything happens for the reason to gain clarity: Is this what I really want? Is this loving to me? What must I believe is true to experience this? And what do I want instead? This is how I live. This is who I am, living life by looking for the deeper meanings behind the stories and situations and understanding what are they reflecting back and how can I transform to have a different experience?
To share this way of life with my Love was so important to me, and for the first time, I have a Partner who is willing to join me on this always growing, transformational path I have chosen. At times we share the same tools but He has his own ways of transforming. We are going side by side on this journey.
To meet Him, I had to become all this, for me. To commit to Me, my well-being, my happiness, my enoughness, my growth, my joy, my Life. And for this, I had to change the small me, the not-worthy me, the scared me, the not-beautiful me, the not-smart me, the loser me, so we could match.
So yes, with PSYCH-K® you can change your perception about anything. Any situation, any experience, any relationship. You can change any limiting pattern you have. And yes, it's quick and easy and very powerful. For some people 1 session gives the change they were looking for. Some want more. More change, more improovement in more life areas.
If you want to know more about the scientific background of PSYCH-K®, you can read more on my website and watch some related videos in the FAQ section.
If you want to meet me or hear more on how is a session structured, you can contact me to have a free 30 min introductory call here
Sessions are online and in-person (Lisbon).
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